Maybe you should get counseling advice to know how to deal with her...!
I probably speak to SIL on the phone maybe 2 or 3 times per month not so much for advice but just to help me with my thought process. SIL works for the probation service and is a very good listener. Actually it been a good learning process for her because she'd never heard of DB before but shes been very interested to see it in action learn and from me.
We sometimes laugh together about how W and BIL were spoilt rotten as kids and how it is affecting them in later life, I seem to be the one who pulled the short straw (lol).
