My H doesn't look terribly different. Can that be bad? I know that he doesn't see OW alot and my S15 seems to think that things have cooled considerably between them. I don't know how S15 would know since he doesn't want to spend time with his dad but maybe just the difference in how he acts when he is with them now versus a few months ago.
kat
Oh, yeah, Kat, I think kids know so much more than we think. My D8 has said some really insightful comments about her dad, and my S14 too. I think my D8 realizes more about her dad than me for some weird reason. (I'm not very observant though)! I don't know if that's good or bad that he looks the same; but if it's cooled off with OW then he may be feeling less guilt than like somebody involved in a more active affair (like my H)??? Karen