So, recap: H and I have been separated since 7/07. We talk pretty often, but he is still w/ OW (who he has been with since 6/06). When around me, H wears his wedding band, never talks about OW when he is with me.
For H's 30th birthday, I got him a watch. In which he responded that I obviously know him better than anyone ever has or ever will.
For mother's day, he sent my mom a gift that said, "Happy mother's day to one of my two favorite mothers. Love, ***"
For my birthday, he got me a card (signed it with a heart, H, not Love, H) and concert tickets.
Thursday was the concert. We had lots of fun, I got drunk, started crying, mourning over us. H wasn't phased. While the show was going on, he hugged me from behind, kissing my head and holding me.
I've since decided that we need to talk and just lay everything on on the table. This will be a 180 for me as I NEVER talk about issues, always avoid things.
But, I just realized that today is father's day. last father's day, H ditched me and my family to go hang out with OW.
This is a hard day for me.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
