[quote=lodo]I have to say - when W stopped by my office the other day I was a little taken aback. She'd already lost a lot of weight but it looks like she's lost more - her head almost looked too big for her body. And her breasts are miniscule. And her hair has this weird look to it - kind of a strange texture or something. A few months ago she said her periods were all over the place so it's hormones, but I was really surprised how different she looked.
lodo
I think that happens a lot--I guess how they're acting comes out in how they look or something. At some level, I think all our WAS have to feel some guilt/depression over their behavior I would think. My H has lost a bunch of his hair recently, and friends have told me he looks "creepy" a little while back. It was funny b/c he looked really good when he first started the affair, was doing Pilates and I guess trying to look good for the OW, but 6 months later, he's not looking so good. I should probably feel sorry for him, but I don't! Karen
Karen