I am going to wait until the kids are done with school before I say anything. I think I am also going to look into a counselor for them so that I have a professional for support at the time that I tell them.
They are just so optimistic that Dad will move back home. I wish I shared their optimism. At first, I thought, "Ah, he'll be back." But each day that passes, it just seems the likelyhood that he will return grows more distant.
I have stopped snooping, I have enough proof of the A. I just wish I could turn my brain off from thinking about the two of them together. Although, it has proved to be a great weight loss technique, as when I am stressed or nervous, I can't eat!
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!