You are neither a failure nor a quitter. You tried, she didn't, she's the failure and quitter. Be carefull of jumping straight into a relationship, you are not ready for that yet, as far as her baiting you into fights, I know that one way too well. In time you will simply ignore anything she has to say, as I have done. At this point my XW knows better than to even try to contact me, I will not, nor will I ever speak to her again.
BH,
Some very good points. Would you mind sharing why you feel this way about your exW? I kind of have the same thoughts right now...
Take Care,
NMD
Why do I feel this way toward my XW? Quite simple, 4.5 years ago my sister passed away, she had 2 children ages 2 and 3. My XW would not shut up until I took them away from thier natural father, don't get me wrong, they needed to be away from him, but we were not prepared for this, she had always preached about having children, she couldn't have any. I had always kinda played it down, so to not make her feel bad about not being able to have any kids, but I also knew that she was way too much about herself to raise kids. Anyway, I tried to talk her out of taking them, but everyone, including her family made me out to be an S.O.B. then a little over 2 years ago she decided that she didn't want them anymore or me. They were 4 and 5 at the time. After she left, she claimed that she didn't really want them, she said she only made one comment about them, her family said that I would have ended up with them anyway, I wasn;t the only man in the world to have to raise kids, you name it. LOL In addition to all of that, she has done just about every type of mean despicable thing you can think of to me. I just decided to not speak to her or her family any more. I thought it was best this way, I really don't want to spend the rest of my life in jail for what I might do if I kept talking to them and listening to them run thier mouths about everything. Hope that answers your question. LOL
BH,
I appreciate you taking time to post that for me.
It seems like you, like a lot of people here, got mixed up with the wrong type of person. Many of our sitches are a sad commentary on how people are today. That is just the way it is....
Take Care,
NMD
You hit the nail on the head with that one. That's just the way it is, no matter how much anyone wishes things could be different or we wish people would do the right things, more often times than not, they won't. Its just the way it is.
