It is more than just the infidelity, though. It is W's persistence in continuing it even as she is telling me otherwise.
gForce,
I can relate to this. When I first found out about my wife's affair, it was the infidelity itself that tore at me -- especially the sex. I was told at the time that, in time, the sex wouldn't even bother me as much as the DECEIT and the DISRESPECT would. I highly doubted that.
It was true.
To have the woman you love look you RIGHT IN THE EYE and just sit there and LIE to you hurt more than anything. Knowing where they were going when they were going out, and the total DISRESPECT that that entailed.
