My W admittedly focuses primarily on herself. If she respected me, she wouldn't have slept with another man. If she respected me, she would have been remorseful if she couldn't help herself from sleeping with another man. If she respected me, she would have had empathy.
Watch out, you sound like me. I hope I am not contagious.
It is more than just the infidelity, though. It is W's persistence in continuing it even as she is telling me otherwise. Trust should be a four-letter word. The problem I see is how to develop trust in a future R. Geez, I see M's falling apart here after decades, so how can we ever be sure? How do you gauge integrity in the face of adversity?
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