hi lodo, sorry to hear about the separation signing. I don't hear depressed in your posting, I hear discouragement.
My grandma always said there is a lid for every pot.
As far as you having your say, being heard in this sitch... have you tried writing a letter to her saying all you want to say, adn then not sending it? Or send it depending on how final you want to make your parting.
Why is it so important to you that she hear your side of things when she clearly does not want to, does not care enough to listen?
Have you read any Richard Bach? Illusions? Bridge Across Forever?
And for the record, even though I have only known you for a few days.. I don't think you believe the part about changing partners every 10 years either.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
