Thank you for saying that about reality has a way of crashing down. I am still hoping it will be sooner than later. I guess b/c I know this MLC started pretty much in 2005 so he has been in it for 3 years already but he just met the OW in June 2007. I really think if she had not pursued him none of this would be happening right now. She is a snake!!!! I just hope one day he will see that & I hope it will be soon!!! I also think you are right & he is in full blown MCL!!!
I'm so sorry that you don't hold on to hope that your M will work. You haven't been going thru this very long either, so you never know!
Everyone says that even tho we are D'd that it's only a piece of paper & he could still come back! I am concerned b/c of him being in another state!
If the D happens with you, look out for you!!! Get a good lawyer. I did, my H wasn't happy about how things turned out, he said I drained him but you have to take care of yourself b/c they are not looking after our best interest now. They are only looking out for themselves. My H told me he wouldn't respect me if I didn't give him a decent D, well in his mind I didn't. So it does make me afraid he won't come back.
