To Hope or Not to Hope?

[bluerain]

My h got new (unexpected) orders too, I thanked god when I found out, a new start, no one would know who we are, or that he had had a pa, but then I found out he didnt want me to go with him. I dont know if he plans on taking the OW there, but I dont think so, right now Im planning on moving with him, I dont know what else to do, the chaplains have been an incredible resource for me, they havent been trying to sway him or anything, just praying with me and listening when I need to talk. Good luck, sometimes I feel like the military community here is sort of shunning me, rumors and gossip, like hes on the inside and Im on the outside, Im sure that they just dont know what to say, but its still tough, but I hope you arent going through that.