My oldest brother has been in town for couple days. We kinda of lost touch over the years (mostly cause W and D was all I needed). We've been talking about things and I told him about it. I came to that same conclusion. No matter what....I'm not doing this again. It was nice to be desirable for a short while but the feelings I got right after were too much. And yes, I understand that I cheated now too.
Having my bro here has been so nice. He's ten years older and we never bonded like we have the last month. Don't remember him being so wise as well. Abby has only met him a few times and doesn't remember him, but she's taken to him as well. I'm very happy about this.
By the way, I spoke to W and set the boundary of OM. She said okay. Then I told her "this is coming to you from a friend....you are not being a very good mom right now". She was about to say something and then in a kind of sad tone, she said ok and was very silent. Do you think it was okay to say this to her? I meant it for Abby's sake.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)