I'll do this without becoming a doormat and without accepting some of the things I have done in the past.
Lan, Can you elaborate with some examples what exactly you mean by this? I'm particularly interested to know what happens when she is either yelling in your face or withdrawing over some silly thing. Or what if the OM business starts up again how will you confront it? God forbid there are unforeseen stresses like job loss, illness, etc. how can you ride thru' these with your W the way she is? I know these are tough questions, but you may as well prepare for the worst.
