Well thank you all for your kind (and not so kind!) words but I think this will be my last post here as sadly everything came to a head this morning.

H admitted that he had been unfaithful to me - 3 one-night stands and 2 long term A, one of 1 year, one of 3 years. I never knew about any of them.

This morning I had mixed feelings but tonight I feel absolutely devastated.

I did wonder if I should start a thread in a more specific area as I really could do with some practical advice on how to split up now.

Incidentally, it wasn't just the LD period that was the killer - he says being unfaithful is just part of his personality and he is unable to change.

Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09
Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3
Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08