Well imLIN your post has lifted my spirits a lot-thanks and im so pleased you are happy together now. Its true I built my life round him-that was the problem -didnt have my own interests really. I do feel great compassion for him he is in such a confused state- his guilt is terrible I think thats why he finds it hard to be with me or talk right now.But there is nothing I can do to help. He knows I love him and would do anything. Havent heard from him for 3 weeks now- a long time for us .I have been insisting on frequent contact but now have decided to let him be for a while.How often did you contact during your separation? Take Care
