Puppy- I am certainly addicted to this feeling I have never felt before. Om does validate me, you are right. H validates me, too, but I just don't feel for him. I'm not telling him, Puppy. I knew you would say I should. I don't see my marriage as any more of a sham if I tell him than if I dont.
Ahh, I'm hardly the one one who says you should. Seems to be a consensus, WDID -- something for you to strongly consider.
Also, with all due respect, when you say "I don't see...", you are -- admittedly -- not SEEING clearly right now, are you?
You have yet to give your marriage 6 months of full no-contact. Until you do, you will never know what might have been possible to "feel." Why not do that, and THEN -- if you decide, free of influence from your feelings for OM, that you want to end it, you can end it with a clear conscience.
Is 6 months too long to ask, considering all your shared marital history?
