Those dates will fade with time. I woke up this year and remembered my anniversary three days after it happened. I shrugged it off and pushed on. These days do fade with time. 31 years is a big investment, and I get that. This is your life now. A new reality. Hang in there. I replied to you on my thread, but what was wrong with your lazy as& husband volunteering to drag a vacuum around the house or use Soft Scrub on the toilet bowls? ;o)
