I could imagine how hard that would be in that situation. I have been going to this DivorceCare support group and it gives me reassurance to not be tempted to get into those situations until you get yourself back on track. They even say not to have friends of the opposite sex during this time. Its hard not to cause you feel you need to be heard by someone and want to rid that loneliness.

I would recommend getting into a church or something if you feel so bad. Would be really good for you and your girl. I wasnt the church going fan until all of this happened to me and here I am today going through my study bible on stuff about "D". I still dont know where I stand or what I believe but I working to find answers and help me better myself. My S really enjoys going and we pray before he goes to bed when he is over.


my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful