I understand, CL. I was actually thinking of saying "sleeping in the same room, but no sex"....but thought that might be too bold. Watching a movie together and certainly your dancing is a good start!

However, why do you think your wife was saying "he won't touch me". YOU are waiting for an invitation from her and she may be waiting for you to make the first move.
Maybe you should send her an email since she does a better job of communicating that way!