You mentioned your wife has lots of reasons not to feel sexual and you have lots of reasons not fo fulfill her emotionally.
Being a 'man' has a lot more facets to it than feeling like a superhero. Married sex has to do with love and you've said for you it does have to do with the relationship, and you've shown that starting with the snuggling will lead to more.
Start with REAL GIVING. And be relentless about that. Do one thing that you know will fill her heart. Something that is really meaningful to her. Just to show love.
It will lead to more. It may take time. But it will work.
Love, chemistry and compatibility are largely CREATED. By what you say and what you do.
It is VERY MASCULINE to take the lead in creating love. It's what REAL MEN do.
Now, what would fill HER heart?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
