Matilda, I think moving back into the bedroom is too big a step. I think the steps will need to be smaller--holding hands, light kissing, sitting together on a couch watching a movie.
She bought a couch last week for her entertainment room. She will have her large-screen TV installed soon. She asked me if I would watch a movie with her sometime.
Sleeping together will probably have to start off as an intermittent thing, and then I would retreat back into my space the next night (like dating, again). I won't move forward without an invitation.
I think learning to be dance partners will keep us busy for now.
However, you are correct in that I will have to be willing to move into greater intimacy when the opportunity presents itself.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
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