Hey Energy, just a fast update on yesterday the 13th. My W and I spent the afternoon car looking. We may have found one so we are going back today to further look. Earlier in the day she said that she wanted to talk to me. Anyway to get to the point once we got home I was sitting quietly and she ask why I was quiet. She then said you have questions about us, in which I replied yes. So the R talks begin. Now I try to be thoughtful and careful on what I say, but still try to get some points across. At one moment she said she was getting mad, so I paused then said, ok would you like to take few min break, she said yes. About 5-10 min she came back and said that after talking to the counselor she is suppose to make a pro and con list about me look at my past as compared to me now. So this is what she wanted to talk to me about: She said that we should take the next 2 months still apart, but that maybe would should start doing some dates here and there. I thought that was good. What bothers me is some of what I say seems to get through to her, but a lot times she tends to shut down and withdrawal. Thats why I'm careful, not pushy, and do my best not to pursue. She did say that we would have more R talks today, so I hope it goes well. Please give me your thoughts or any advice that you may have.
