Still in love with my waw....after divorce

[Bill_S]

I dont know whats worse. My ex being happy after what she did or being unhappy with a jerk and kicking me to the curb. Im just trying to focus on my son. But sometimes the financial mess she helped cause is overwhelming. Ive got to dig out before I can be happy. Im thinking that for a year I should just forget about dating and just zero in on a few important things. Even if I met a great woman I dont think I could be happy with my debt and still needing a home of my own. Shes not really on fire to refinance and its hurting me. Havent gotten that "stimulus" money and I paid the taxes we owed. By the end of July we should get it and most of it comes to me. That will stabilize me.

Whats worse? The emotional or financial problems that come with divorce? I guess being more concerned about money means Im LESS concerned about her

I just try to remember its one step at a time.

Bill