LOL You don't even know the half of it! She has told me in the past to put them in a foster home, give them to whoever will take them, etc. Her parents spent a lot of time with them and after my XW left, they never even said good-bye to them. My kids still ask about them all, I have tried to explain things to them the best that I can, but they still don't get it. I work a job 40 min. from where I live and I put in 60+ hours per week. My mother was helping me watch them, but she wanted more money, which I didn't have to give her, so she doesn't help anymore. LOL and some people on this board want to know why I have such a negative attitude toward people? LOL I am very much used to this type of behaviour, my dad walked off and left us when I was a kid for his "true love" LOL he is still wandering around after all this time. My mother accepts no responsibility for the kids whatsoever. Its tough to say the least.