Please, PLEASE read "the 5 languages of apology". at least go to your local borders or whatever, and skim through it for 20 mins IF you dont do it now, it will be much MORE difficult for you down the road. his feelings will cement, after a few more days(if they havent already ). then, instead of trying to "push your face through oatmeal", you'll be trying to chisel through concrete.
good luck. be brave. be loving, without pushing, or having expectations back. show love through actions, more than words.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle