Hi from England -My sitch-married 28 yrs. seperated 1. Current condition"holding" No contact for 3 wks now I am trying to detach a bit. He says "I love you and I dont want a divorce but I am afraid I get trapped again and I couldnt go through that again(the leaving)Says he doesnt know if we can be man and wife again-doesnt know what he wants.There is OW involved but he lives alone and I think is being equally ambivalent with her. The more I read posts the more I think this is a MLC. A bit late-he is 55 I am 59. Can anyone tell me where I can read about the stages of MLC? I am holding on but need to know more . Any ideas- I have the DB book and it has really helped-its the stages of MLC I would like to know more about. Thanks .
