hey there,
I have been following your posts the last few days and did some reading up on the earlier ones, I just wanted to say I feel for you, My wife has taken the stand of saying nothing will ever change, no matter what I do or say she is done, she moved out a week ago and this has been the most heart wrenching time of my life, I understand your earlier mistakes with the begging and crying and saying things will be different. I found this site a week ago and have began to implement some of the things I see, it has been so hard not talking to her, she has called me once asking to move more stuff out of our house, otherwise she seems super happy being away from me, I really miss her and think what I could have done differently, BUT I do think that this is a great site and even though it goes against everything we ThINK we know, I am putting my faith in myself(for once) and god and this whole crazy db thing, hang in there, I wish you could read my posts but I don't know how to link to it.