Well me and my son just got back from Kung Fu Panda again!! $ times now that we have seen that movie, lol, he loves it!
Well so far I have been keepingwat the wife may be doing, feels pretty good to I might admit. Been letting her make all the contact and have been upbeat every time except for when she woke me up the other morning, since I got home at 5am and she called at 6:30 It was more of a wtf is going on than being mad. She has called three times today to make small talk and what my plans were going to be with my son, she even offered me money for my broke a$$ which I had to decline.
Anyways that is what has been going on, hope everyone has a good weekend!!
Stay strong everyone we will triumph in one way or the other!!!
Been AWOL for abit but have stayed up with your sitch. Man the rollercoaster has been traveling at full speed. W is all over the board, you sound as though you are dealing with it in a good way. From wanting a new relationship to filling out paperwork as Mike said if the paperwork arrives sign it and give it back, don't react but act of your own accord, it's just paper. Don't try and read her mind it will just make you crazy, at this point she can't even read her own mind.
I was very sorry to read about your mom, hope she is doing better. In the book it says to try different things take a step back and interpert the reactions, find what works and what doesn't. This is not a science it is a guide in which to go by. Keep working on yourself and spending time with the kiddos and GALing.
If W asks you to do something and you have nothing planned do it Tink is spot on with this, just don't always be readily available. It's a contridication in terms and hard to understand at times but sometimes you must 'feel' your way. Observe what is working and what isn't that is the course brother. Will check in later have a great weekend...
Well today I reached 2 of my goals I set for myself, 1st is I quit chewing tobacco after 17 years...such a nasty habit and very hard to quit, been off it now for 1 whole week:) And the 2nd is I finally gave up the pop.
Today was a pretty good day I got my a$$ kicked all day long by my son whether it was monopoly, army guys, or cops and robbers he just seems to win all the time, can't figure it out. The only part that sucked was when we were headed back to the W's house my S asked me when I can come home to my real home with mommy and Nani Broke my heart and I wasn't totally sure how to answer him. So that set the mood and I hurried and dropped him off so I wouldn't have to see the W.
Well as soon as I get home I had to call the W for a computer question. I was upbeat as all but she sounded upset about something and I did not ask her what it was, I just asked if everything was good at the homefront, and her reply was ya it's ok. Then she offered me money again because me and my friends are going out, can't figure out why she is offering me all this money when I have my own, very little I might add, bu m living.
Oh well enough rambling I am hitting the town tonight with the boys!
Today was a rather bleak day. I went over to get my kids to see if they wanted to go out to eat. Well neither of them wanted to go because my wife already fed them, no big deal though. So I got to see my kids for about a total of 10 minutes
Wife then calls a little bit later to apologize for ruining my day. I just laughed and told her nothing ruined my day because I am still a father and always will be. Don't need gifts or dinners to tell me that once a year. She laughed and then invited me to go bowling with them. I wanted to go but I came home to finish my homework.
It was more of a wtf is going on than being mad. She has called three times today to make small talk and what my plans were going to be with my son, she even offered me money for my broke a$$ which I had to decline.