OH, my H used to get so pissed off at me every time I would find out something new...OMG....I would just listen to the ...."""aaaaaa...what??..." OMG....the lies...and YR is right my gut was telling me a lot after I found out about OW...he was such a good liar but now I see so much clearer....I see where the lies were but I was too much in love to see it....I trusted him....A friend of mine had a friend that worked for the phone co. and he looked at his phone bill and told me that my H talked to OW 143 times in 30 days....who needs to talk to one person that much.....I blew up at him...I was cussing so bad...and my H told me I was going psycho...LOL!! I said, "ya know what,, this makes you psycho"...and it does....but see thier lies catch up with them...once they start lying to cover a lie...it's gets to a point they don't remember what they said....H had no where to go but under.....and look how many lives he took down with him...I told him the other day that I hoped he got the happiness he wanted....
I got no response....Jerk!!
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
With OW being married 3 other times...what does that tell you...it tells me she gave him an ultimatum and he divorced you to marry her....it won't last....watch...
And my H never lets that stupid phone out of his sight...it's glued to him....never know when she will send him a nice little message....B****..
When I was in my rage the other night I looked at him and told him to quit telling people the OW is a good person because good people don't do things like this and to quit defending her...He said, "i'm not defending her"...Bull....
And Glam....I've had people ask me out already...one person even told me he was a potential boyfriend...NO HE"S NOT!! I've never given my number to anyone....It would get way too complicated...I do go out with friends and they happen to be males but they are like big brothers to me...very protective...one guy was buying me drinks one night and they kept me right with them...it's nice to have friends like that..
Last edited by Treese; 06/14/0802:34 AM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
No I didn't date. I did get asked out but I didn't feel like I was ready for any of that. Besides I want my H and no one else. Each person is different though. I needed to heal from what I had been through and see what road God wanted me to take.
Well, I hope it won't get that far that they marry! The first email I saw, he had told her that he would call her baby, sweetheart, lover, etc.... then he said & maybe one day my wife but he said he wouldn't push that one b/c he knew how she felt about it. So I don't know. They are just living together right now.
I'm like you, I really don't think it will last & after her sending me that "thank you for yout H" email I really don't think it will last thru the end of the summer. At least I hope it won't. My H would not have condoned that, I'm pretty sure about that!!
I never confronted him about me seeing the cell phone & stuff like that, I'm not really sure he knows how I found out so much. He only thought the emails I got into was all, now I'm not sure what he thinks. I do know that he & I used to talk over 600 minutes a month until OW came along & we lived together!!! You see why I'm in such shock!!!