I agree, I just hope that eventualy this storm will settle within him. I will see both my dad & my father-in-law on fathers day and I will feel good about it. Meanwhile, I have to deal with the hurt of my H not wanting to be around any of my family or friends.
He has hung out with his buddies the last two nights and has gotten wasted. This is like the only thing my H likes to do anymore. I am going crazy, because I love him to death and I would like to see him want to be with me more often, but it goes in spurts. He will hang with me for a few days, and then be off with his new freinds.
I am torn constantly between doing what I want to do and what he wants to do. Weekends are especially hard.
I just want to screem right now, he should be here with me instead of at the bar ALL THE TIME. He keeps saying he will cut back but I am not seeing it. ANY ADVICE PLEASE-I feel like I am going to blow. TIPPER
