That is when I detached the best. I could let it go. I didn't think of him night and day. I still loved him but you get to a point where it is just better to let them spin by themselves and if they decided to spin back home then things get interesting! It does get stagnet after a while. But they are still processing everything.
As you pull back from it all you even question yourself, "why the heck am I still hanging on." Let me tell you in my sitch it was well worth it.
