Well I snooped until he locked the guest bedroom door! LOL
But by then I had found out everything I needed to know. Also my L told me to get all the info I could in case we went to court. I even got the airlines to tell me his conformation number & would pull it up on line & get his flight info. Like I said before I became a pretty good PI but he was lying so much & being so deceitful, he was bad!!
I also had to keep quite! I found out about OW on Sept. 26th & H found out he got busted on Nov.1st. So many times when we were talking, arguing or mostly him telling me what a bad person I was or whatever, I wanted to say something about OW but I didn't. He was trying to tell me all the things he was divorcing me for but none of it made any sense, there was no real reason. Anyway all that he said was petty & could have been worked out, but he was involved with OW & that was the real reason he wanted out.
I just couldn't believe all the things he was saying, it hurt me so BAD!!!!