I did the snooping thing too in the beginning...that's how I found out a lot of things...I don't anymore because is does hurt you more than them cause they don't care...
When I was snooping one day I found a laminated page that my H used to carry around with all our pictures in it and he had cut me out of the picture....broke my heart....and his response. "well you shouldn't have been snooping"...and it goes on...I found out way too much...more than I wanted to...so as far as snooping I haven't done that in a very long time....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity