YR;

I got that too the other day when I was in my rage....I hate his frickin phone....he was like hiding and I said what you trying to hide to use the phone now....and he said, "why do you care anyway...it's none of your business....I do care...just don't do it in front of me that's all I ask....I think he does it on purpose to tell you the truth...

Heart.....my husband would NEVER ask if I was seeing anyone or care..sometimes I wish he would ask..I remember a while back and I was telling him I hated him staying with OW and blah, blah, blah...and he said.."I don't ask where you are or what you're doing...you could be sleeping with someone for all I know".....he knows darn well I'm not doing that nor would I that's why he is so secure in everything he is doing.....it's time to create some mystery....I don't mean make him jealous cause he's so not the jealous type but just not be here when he comes over or answer his calls...wait...he doesn't come over very much and he NEVER calls me....I mentioned to him the other day that I haven't bothered him or called him and he said I know...that's what we're supposed to do we're separated....hhhhhhhuuuhhhhhhh...like talking to a wall...a brick wall.....

and yr....you're right he hasn't faced anything yet...the only thing that he has mentioned to his mom was the fact that the girls aren't talking to him....

I just got home from taking D16 to dinner and shopping....6 hours of us shopping and eating....and H missed out on everything..didn't even come over to see her....and she only turns 16 once...very sad..his loss....we on the other hand made memories that only she and I will remember....

and....thanks for the good thoughts about SIL...she really needs some help....I hope she gets it also....

Treese

Last edited by Treese; 06/14/08 01:50 AM.

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity