Winner At A Losing Game

[SueS]

Hi NoCode-

Well, It's just after 8:00 pm in NC right now, so I hope that means you're out with those friends and having a great time. You certainly do deserve it.

I've heard a lot of people mention their "trigger" dates lately and those dates that invoke painful memories. You know, I thought my H was having an A for quite a while before I confronted him, so I can't remember the exact "bomb" date for me. Some dates in July will hit me hard though. July was when H introduced me to OW & her H, smiling all the while telling me how we'd all have so much in common. Makes me sick to think of it. I'm sure it will never cross his mind though. I'm with tal on this one. I don't think those dates even cross their minds. I wish they'd understand someday how hard it is and how difficult those days can be.

I'm glad you have a good evening with your sons. You're a great dad and you've done a spectacular job of sticking to your guns to make sure you're as big a part of their lives as possible.

Have a good weekend! I'll be thinking of you!

SueS

......came back on to say have a Happy Father's Day too.