Im glad she is starting to settle down with this, as this will make it easier on you and the boys.
Its about time
As far as the dates go, I do doubt she has an idea of the exact date that this all went down, only becuase they are so clouded with everything else, she probably doesn't remember what happend last month.
of course you still love her, that's understandable, you will with her for 18 years.. but the love will change, probably just that you care for her, and that will be it. She isn't the person you married, and probably won't ever be unless she makes some major changes. that is the person you fell in love with, not the person she is right now.
Have fun tonight.. have a drink for me
(((hugs)))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.