so i'm going to be legally separated in like a week from my W..... i've been DBing for about 2.5 weeks now...and it seems to be getting better....however, my W says that getting one of these is "proactive"...can someone enlighten me as to why?

here is the link to my original thread in newcomers...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1480509

ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

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