So you didn't handle things the way you think you should have...it is okay...you are human. How did your H react?
He reacted like he usually does when I get mad, he clams up. For years I have said that the only time he gets mad at me is when I get mad at him. It's frustrating.
Originally Posted By: Upside
Can you try to make something positive out of this. After things calmed down, did you and your H discuss what was said?
We discussed it a little. It was far from the friendly, relaxed financial discussion that I was hoping for a few days ago. I admitted that I have alot of built-up resentments about money that I need to get past.
Originally Posted By: Upside
You know you can't change your H, you can only change yourself. So, keep focusing on all of your positives and find ways to accept (and be happy with) your H for who he is. You know that you didn't like your life without your H, so find new ways to make your life with him work.
