Originally Posted By: Grace_O
I hope you aren't beating yourself up too much over last night. You know the drill, if you did something that didn't work......


Hi Grace,
No, I'm done beating myself up (for now!)

Originally Posted By: Grace_O
You know you can't change him, the question is can you accept him the way he is if he never changes?


Good question. I hope that he will change, especially his self-destructive behaviors, the way he handles money, how he takes care of himself. Does it mean that I'm not accepting him if I have these hopes for change?



me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08