H4H - I am stopping by and catch up with your sitch. I laughed so much at the "MLC for Dummies" it is hysterical. I thought for a microsecond to send it to W, but then, what's the point? I don't think you can appreciate it if you are not on this side of the fence. The mixing signal W is giving you can drive you nuts - they keep you in "her world", while you have do drag her in "your world". In these days I am reading books that only few months ago I would never thought I was even going to consider them as "books". Stuff written by David DeAngelo and Ross Jeffries. It is all about seduction - Don Juan De Marco style. I am enjoying this readings a lot - and - following the guidelines of these books in the years of marriage I did EVERYTHING wrong with W.... so time to change my attitude with women. I think I'll get the pictures of Don Juan, Thomas Crown and James Bond and staple them close to mirror in the bathroom....
I am a bit worried about the health of your W, you are going to have to be detached and keep an eye on her. Not an easy juggle but has to be done....