Moving Forward 4

[Puppy Dog Tails]

When my wife was having her affair, at this time last year, one of the things I said to her (and to her parents and to our adult daughters) was, that I didn't understand why she was so hell-bent on leaving the marriage. She had had NO serious complaints, just some small stuff ("he spends too much time on that laptop of his" and "he spends too much time at those damned ballfields!"), and I told her that I could understand possibly wanting some time apart to see if we could get that "spark" back or something, but why was she seemingly so HELL-BENT on running away from ALL of us (her family, too)???

She couldn't really answer that one.

[lodo]

How can one go from devotion to desertion so quickly?

Such is the frightening power of brain chemicals. This is what made an otherwise intelligent, sane woman -- an elite astronaut -- drive across the country wearing an adult diaper to go avenge her man.

Puppy

This is my favorite example of yours Puppy!

[lodo]

Has anyone heard David Sedaris talk about the "stadium pal"?

Kerry, I haven't done much sailing so I'm really looking forward to the trip!

[Bridgestone]

It's late, west coast time. I feel like I'm here alone, just thinking over the tumult of the day. .....I love the way Bridgestone writes

Thank you, sincerely & deeply for that compliment. I needed something like that today, even though you wrote it a few days ago.

I stopped by here because I wanted to find out more about this person I am sharing some of my thoughts with. There is a lot here & i will be reading for a while yet.

Thanks for your support & questions that make me think. I hope I can soon have the kind of rapport with others that you have built up with some of the people you have mentioned on here.

Peace.

[lodo]

LOL - be careful what you read! I vent a lot on my own thread without really thinking about it. After having read your posts the last couple of days I really need to rethink some of my own attitudes. I guess that's a big part of why I decided not to go dark with W; I'll be friendly with her even though it tears me up inside. But that will pass and we'll both come out of this as better people.

[gForce]

Yup, a lot of mental diarrhea on my thread, too. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you read -- or something like that.

[kat727]

Hey guys, I am fine pushing the movie back if you want. I don't have anything else planned. Just let me know what you want to do.

kat

[hopeful4her]

Yup, a lot of mental diarrhea on my thread, too. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you read -- or something like that.

Or was it "Believe some of what someone else told you and everything your mom said, but never what....."

I forget.

[gForce]

Hope you have a great time sailing. Catch you later at the movies. Have too much fun!

[Peaches40]

How can one go from devotion to desertion so quickly?

Such is the frightening power of brain chemicals. This is what made an otherwise intelligent, sane woman -- an elite astronaut -- drive across the country wearing an adult diaper to go avenge her man.

Puppy

Now that is amazing isn't it! "A women scorned" brings that saying to a new level.