I had a breakthrough this weekend. On Saturday I found myself attracted to a woman that was not my stbx. She appeared to be attracted to me. Never mind that I am 9 years her senior. (35 and 26 respectively) I believe that if I had put in the effort, a kiss and perhaps more would have been my prize. I am not quite ready for such shennigans, however, and remained satisfied with the present circumstance being what it was.
Sounds like a small thing, I know. BUT… for the first time I felt that there may just be life after D. There very well may be “other fish in the sea.”
You are neither a failure nor a quitter. You tried, she didn't, she's the failure and quitter. Be carefull of jumping straight into a relationship, you are not ready for that yet, as far as her baiting you into fights, I know that one way too well. In time you will simply ignore anything she has to say, as I have done. At this point my XW knows better than to even try to contact me, I will not, nor will I ever speak to her again.
