I wish H would just leave his drama to Barack OBama and leave me alone. You know that I changed my cell phone number, right? Well last night I was at my new friends' house watching a movie and trying to relax a little when at 10:30pm my cell phone goes off. It is my mom who says that H called her and woke her up. She hasn't talked to H since Christmas and so she asked if this was an emergency and he said yes. So I call H back on my friends' phone. H says, "did you throw a beer bottle at OW's house tonight?" I say "huh?" He goes, "Someone threw a beer bottle at her house and she is sure it was you. I told her that you wouldn't do that." I say, "I am not that immature and I don't even drink beer. Plus I am not even in town tonight."
So that was an emergency? You know....I don't care enough about H and the OW to bother to get in my car and throw anything at them. Maybe a month ago....but now I just want them out of my life.
Went through Christmas decorations today and boxed up H's stocking and other itmes. I figured it was easier to do today than in December. The garage is getting full of his junk. I also got the car insurance changed so that we will have seperate bills.
So yeah....life is going on.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
Keep up the PMA. This has to be about YOU. How you grow, improve and move forward. He made his choice. If he changes his mind then you will have something to consider.
Good for you w.r.t. the Friend. Be Careful of the rebound relationship. I'm told that they hurt worse than the D wehn they end.
H says, "did you throw a beer bottle at OW's house tonight?" I say "huh?" He goes, "Someone threw a beer bottle at her house and she is sure it was you. I told her that you wouldn't do that."
Karen