(((Karen)))its ok to be upset and its ok to cry. You can't be shiny and happy all of the time, if you can then I need the name of whatever you're taking
Corey
Um, that would be Prozac! Good stuff! Of course I'm also doing therapy, trying to GAL, and I hate to say it but my H moving out helped too (getting yelled at a lot probably brings most people down). Thanks for letting me know I'm not the crazy one. GFI, you're right, I know my H has some kind of control issues and gets very upset when I decide where I want to live or decisions about the house or whatever. And I do wonder if he "villainizes" me a bit to help with the guilt of being with the OW while married (if I was a good person then what kind of person would he be?).... Karen
Of course I'm also doing therapy, trying to GAL, and I hate to say it but my H moving out helped too (getting yelled at a lot probably brings most people down). Thanks for letting me know I'm not the crazy one. GFI, you're right, I know my H has some kind of control issues and gets very upset when I decide where I want to live or decisions about the house or whatever. And I do wonder if he "villainizes" me a bit to help with the guilt of being with the OW while married (if I was a good person then what kind of person would he be?).... Karen