Welcome Longhaul.....PATIENCE...take things slow...make yourself do things for you..have a long talk with yourself, and realize you will be a better person because of this..I know that sounds strange, but I have never felt better about myself in a long time...and I think h could maybe say the same about himself...I have lost weight, taken up hobbies I have put off, gone out with friends..of course I would like to say that h and I are living happily ever after..together...and that will come if it is meant to be.It is so hard, but you have a beautiful daughter who needs a strong, healthy mom.
