My H says he doesn't need help...that he is perfectly fine....he didn't leave because of another person but because of "us"...he had to be true to himself....that he deserved to be happy and he hasn't been happy with me for a very long time...that don't I understand...it's how he feels....
Originally Posted By: yellowrose
He told me to find someone else, he wanted me happy, he wanted happiness for himself and that he was tired.
I heard both of these things too. There have also moments where he actually lets me in a little bit to try and understand what he is going through.
In the past there was a day where he would tell me to find someone else. Then the next two times I would e questioned if I had found someone, if I had the oppurtunity, if someone is trying to talk to me, if so what did they say and lots of "Who, who, who, who."
Then on the same hand. If I call or text he does not always respond, yet when I do not call or text I get asked why I havn't. So then I make a bit of an effort to connect a bit then he is ok after a few days then starts ignoring me again or he just comes over instead of respinding, which I do like. It makes me crazy! I was doing good. I should have kept on just not calling or texting.
Yellowrose did your hubby ever not respond to a text or call and explain later why he did that. I just dont get it.
Oh another thing. Has the doctor tested your electrolytes? Its sounds like they are off balanced. Try drinking Gatorade and eating chicken soup. Those replensih your electrolytes and your sodium and minerals. They are also easy on an uneasy belly. Sometimes we dont have enough of those in our systems and it throws everything off. This happened to my dad who drank TOO much water.
Treese, I am sorry to hear about your SIL. I pray she gets better soon.
