Back to square one

[Hope4us]

I agree. So if the marriage does make it, still more lies to prevent the emotional intimacy a marriage requires.

Not bashing WDID. I see how you're struggling and it's given me insight into what my WW is going through and I've been following your posts to gleen info that will help my sitch. I think you've been very strong and know what needs to be done but are torn.

NC is the only way you'll ever know if you can make it with your H.

This exact discussion is what I didn't like about "after the affair". In the book it talks about revealing an affair or not and in some cases supports NOT telling and I'll just never understand that. A marriage with lies in it is no marriage in my book.