Please remember that they do not always realize what the heck they are saying, let alone doing!!
They are not in their right minds for some time. Just step back and let him be. Once you let him go, you will feel a bit better.
Think of him as having been abducted by aliens and he is not in his right mind.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19