I have read about this from others' posts who are "Piecing", that once they are back, alot of bad feelings resurface in the LBS.
Get rid of your evidence. Have him get rid of his 'trophy's' or things you suspect she gave him. Let him know why you are doing this and why you need him too. Because you are paving the way for a smoother ride. It is not going to be an easy ride, but at least get rid of the bumps that you can.
Throwing out my evidence...it was scary, it really was, here was the stuff that helped me focus my anger, a part of my past history the REASONS for everything...It was a crutch, getting rid of them was liberating, even though it scared me to do so.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
