I always felt that the confusion and wishy-washiness was the true telltale of MLC. Their hot-cold and yes no attitude that absolutely consumes the LBS at first is the big MLC flag for me.
So is her attitude fraud or just confused? I at times saw glimpses of my old wife in the depths of her MLC. One glimpse a smile or concern peeking out of her eyes, that would fuel me for awhile.
Fraud implies a bigger picture with long term thiniking, and I never believed that an MLC was capable of thinking down the road for more than a few days. At least in my MLC wife.
Oh they are deceptive. They lie to protect themselves from wrath. "We are just friends, I broke it off."
Confused right now, anything is possible. Get a better lay of the land.
Their confusion is you ally.
I say that, because as a WAH once upon a time. I wasn't confused at F-ing all when I was done. I gave no hope, I gae nothing to indicate that I was going to change my mind because I wasn't. I did not have an MLC.
That is why I say their confusion is your ally. They don't know what they want...or if you are an optimist...A part of them wants you. But you cannot push them into it. Comprende?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
